I spent ten years breaking things so you don't have to

Solo and Solvent wasn't dreamed up in an afternoon. It is the raw distillation of five business attempts, a career-ending injury, and a decade spent staring at midnight bank balances before figuring out a system that actually holds under pressure.

RJ

In 1999, I was named in the Wales preliminary World Cup rugby squad. I was at the peak of my physical career when a car accident changed the trajectory of everything. While I managed to rehab and play on for another five seasons, I was never the same athlete. My career didn't end in a dramatic flash—it petered out quietly, which in many ways is a far harder thing to make peace with.

When the sports contracts dried up, the real drift began. I spent three years bouncing between roles, completely lost without the identity and structure of professional sport. Eventually, I decided that freedom lay in working for myself. But wanting a business is very different from knowing how to run one safely.

Over the next ten years, I started and completely failed at four different businesses. I didn't fail due to a lack of effort—I failed because I fell headfirst into the classic solopreneur traps. I outworked every problem until I was burnt out, undercut my rates out of fear during slow months, and carried the crushing mental load of every structural decision completely alone.

In 2019, I started my digital marketing agency, Yap Digital. It has now run successfully for seven years. The turning point wasn't finding a magical marketing channel or landing a whale client—it was realizing that running a business alone requires an entirely different set of control systems than a traditional company. I stopped trying to be a hero and started building frameworks around my cash flow, my pricing, and my energy limits.

Solo and Solvent exists because nobody handed me these systems when I was checking my Stripe account at 2 AM with a pit in my stomach. If the pressure loop sounds exactly like your current day-to-day life, I built this framework for you.

The three brutal truths I learned the hard way:

  • 01 Hard work is a terrible system. If your business only runs smoothly when you are working 70 hours a week, you don't have a business—you have a high-risk job with a demanding boss (yourself).
  • 02 Pricing fear is a structural problem. You don't undercharge because your work is bad; you undercharge because your current bank balance gives you zero leverage to say no. Comfort requires a buffer system, not just talent.
  • 03 Isolation carries a high tax. Making every single tactical decision alone wears down your decision-making capacity. Without simple frameworks to filter choices, execution grinds to a halt.

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